Author Archives: CD Behr

Yup, you’re going through a break up. Doesn’t really matter who dropped the bomb, but in most cases you could both taste it coming. Something was off. And “somebody” has to pull the plug. Preferably, it was you, Mr RedPill Aware. Regardless, it’s done. So why is there all this advice to hard block andContinue reading “The Magic of No Contact”

So the most recent gf (on and off; hot and cold; LDR) went bad. She bailed while I was out of the house on errands. I went no contact. 2 emails; 3 texts. Ignored. I was blocked n Twatter (she likes to snoop now and mistakenly believes she’ll get some sort of insight and/or secretContinue reading “My Most Recent Mistake”

Good question. It’s actually a two in one story. I’ve been told that I have a way with words and ideas that seem to go deeper than the average bear (yes, a Yogi reference and to my nom deplume). Often enough I started to believe it. And while going through my divorce a decade agoContinue reading “So Why Now and Why Here?”